Cyber bullying
What is it?
You are a victim of cyber bullying, if someone is sending you intimidating or harassing messages, or is putting derogatory comments under your photos.
How to tackle it?
1. Collect evidence
- Take screenshots of the derogatory comments or posts for filing a complaint.
- Mark them with the date and name of the person who posted it even if it is a fake name.
- Download posted photos or videos, as these may have helpful hidden information.
- After collecting all the evidence, block these bullies.
2. Privacy settings
- Be careful about what you share online.
- Always check your privacy settings on all your social accounts.
- Delete any personally identifying information such as your address, location, phone number, or date of birth
- Share such info only with people you feel comfortable with.
- Set photos in your profile to private, so that people you don't trust cannot see them.
- Ask a friend to see what is visible in your profile.
- Make your account completely private depending on your priority.
3. Don't take bullying comments personally
- Ignore inappropriate messages, if possible.
- Never retaliate by writing a nasty post, as it will only worsen the situation.
- Do not doubt your views or beliefs because of the rude comments by any person.
- Don't re-read the offending comments as this will only spoil your mood and increase anger.
- Report such texts to a group moderator, if possible.
4. Listen to others
- Always understand that not everyone will have the same beliefs or views as you do.
- While you are interacting with someone for the first time, be receptive to their opinions.
- At times, a rude comment might only be a different opinion.
5. Always talk it out
- Don't get disturbed or stressed on personal comments.
- Talk about it with someone trusted friend or someone in the family.
- Gather courage to stop the bullying behaviour to enjoy your online experience.
- Raise awareness about bullying.
- Help those who are being bullied.