WHO AM I ?

1. What is my heritage?
- Is it liberating or constricting?
- To what extent am I influenced/controlled by the "group think" of my caste, creed, religion, organization and so on?
- What is happening to the religious beliefs which my parents gave me?
- Are they meeting my religious needs today?
- What kind of relationship do I have with God - formal, personal or non-existent?

2. How do I introduce myself?
- How am I generally introduced by others?
- Do I feel important/small by this form of introduction in different situations?
- Does my designation/position in my organisation, religion, language, caste say all there is to be said about me?

3. Have there been people who have influenced me?
- Are they my parents, society and so on?
- Have they made a deep impact on me?

4. Am I aware of my unique qualities?
- Do I have my own qualities of body, head and heart?
- Have I acknowledged this uniqueness so far?
- Have I been unconsciously believing that I am just another face in the crowd?
- Do I really believe that each human being is unique?
- What are the qualities which I appreciate in others?
- What qualities do I have which draw people to me?
- Do my qualities put people off?
- Do I feel good about myself?
- How do I rate myself and why?
- Is there scope for improvement in some aspects?
- Do I seek or encourage feedback about them?

5. Is my behaviour predictable or erratic?
- Do people find me trustworthy?
- Can I recall specific instances and people in this regard?
- Am I forthright or dishonest?
- Do I communicate clearly or carelessly?
- Do I treat promises seriously?

6. Am I very confident of myself?
- What is the basis of my self-confidence?
- What makes me feel shaky and uncertain?

7. Where do I find my real happiness?
- In having things done my way?
- In the fulfillment of my wants and desires?
- In my relationships?
- In my independence?
- In being at peace with myself?
- In positive self-esteem?
- In earning for one's living?
- In making more money?

8. Will I lose my happiness if my wealth and comforts become lesser?

9. Do I find time to be alone with myself and to introspect?

10. Do I feel good about myself?